Do you know those mysterious, brooding lone wolf types? The strong, silent hotties who do their own thing? Yeah, those “Jacob Black” types. If you're anything like me, your gaydar starts pinging like crazy whenever one saunter by. I'm talking about male...
How to Train and Care for Your Pet in Gay Pet Play BDSM
All About Pet Play in Gay BDSM Pet play is a favorite BDSM kink of mine. As a dominant partner, there’s something very enchanting about taming a partner and turning him into my obedient pet. But let me warn you now — training a sub...
Gay Men Kissing: The Art of Kissing Foreplay
Gay men kissing — is there anything hotter than two men locking lips? A good kiss can really get things going in (and outside) the bedroom. In this guide, I want to explore the different kinds of kisses we gay men love — from a quick peck to a passionate...
What is the Gay Furry Femboys Lifestyle?
Femboy furries, unite! If you're like us, you know the struggle of navigating self-expression in a world that's often unaccepting. But enough about that! We're here to celebrate the freedom that comes with being our true selves. Whether you're a baby...
7 Must-Have Items for a CNC Kink Play Kit
There are endless things to talk about in the wonderful world of BDSM. After all, it has something for everyone. In this article, I’ll take you to an often muddled subgenre of BDSM: Consensual non-consent or CNC Kink. You might wonder why people get...
How to Show Appreciation for Your Muscular Daddy
Looking for tips to stroke your muscular daddy’s ego (and muscles)? Whether he's a hulking bodybuilder or just an everyday Adonis, it's time to lavish loving attention on every sculpted inch. I’m here to make sure your muscle worship hits the spot. So,...
The Best Sex Cosplay Themes Involving Petsuits
Ever thought about trying out cosplay themes involving petsuits? You might be seeking to try out new and kinky things in the bedroom with your gay partner or looking for ideas for a convention or sex cosplay-themed event. You are in luck. While some...
Pup and Handler: All about Puppy play and Sub
If you've recently heard the phrases Puppy play, Pet play, and references to pups in a sexual context and you just don't quite get it yet then this article is for you. Pup play is a common fetish interest within the gay community. But not to say it is...
Monster masks: The sexual allure of creature fetish
Monster masks in sexual scenes can be considered a fetish style that stands as a representation of masculinity and a show of interest in more kinky styles of sex. It is often seen as sexy, cool, alluring and mysterious. Wear a monster mask in the right...
How to Host a Fetish-Themed Party
Welcome to Smitizen where we talk about gay men, gay sex, and fetishes. Wondering about how to host your first fetish party? Then this piece is for you. Hosting a fetish party can be one of the best ways to take a full-on deep dive into exploring sex as...