I just love my muscle man suit. Don’t you? I’ve never been a gym buddy, but I’m quite lean without needing to do any reps. Still, there are times when I just want to feel muscly. There are also instances when my loverboy prefers me with a set of washboard abs.
But some of my friends don’t get the appeal of these awesome suits. I say, they’re just using muscle man suits wrong! Muscle man suits are already amazing on their own. But to really lift the bar on the sexiness department, you have to add some accessories.
I know there are thousands of accessories out there. But I have 8 favorites I’m sure you’ll find just as exciting. So, in this post, I’ll share my go-to accessories with you. By the end of it, you’ll surely have a head-turning ensemble no man can say no to!
1. Leather Harness
A classic accessory you can’t skip is a leather harness. It instantly grabs anyone’s attention and exudes a rugged, masculine charm. It’s so attractive that there’s even a harness trend in KPop.
A harness over the chest area of your muscle man suit accentuates the pectorals and shoulders. You’ll instantly look more sculpted, with a matching powerful silhouette. There are other materials used for harnesses. But leather adds that sexy texture and depth. It can make anyone look even more intriguing.
For Enhancing that Masculine Touch
A leather harness is great as a fashion accessory. But it’s also quite practical in more intimate scenes.
For gay men, the leather harness amplifies the aura of masculinity in the best way possible. It snugly wraps around your torso, emphasizing every muscle curve. It’s perfect for BDSM scenes that focus on dominance and control.
The leather is also durable, providing both comfort and a visual treat.
Perfect for Play
Leather harnesses fit seamlessly into a variety of kink scenarios. It’s ideal for roleplaying, especially when you’re taking on a dominant role. Hold up though, it’s also great for subs to hold on to when they’re being fucked.
It can also match any dungeon you already have at home.
2. Bulge Enhancer
A bulge enhancer is pretty forward. Everything you need to know is already in its name! This accessory is designed to draw attention to your crotch. You’ll often see this in lewd photos or even Grindr.
The bulge enhancer creates a provocative silhouette no gay men can simply ignore. You’ll always do a double take and debate with yourself if what you’re seeing is the real deal. I know I do that when I’m swiping through my dating apps!
For Teasing During Extended Events
Now, when you’re out wearing your muscle man suit, you’ll want to pair it with something just as big. You already expect people to look at you up and down. So, show them something to ogle at when their eyes lock in on your Junior.
Perfect for Play
I recommend enhancing your bulge if you’re into exhibitionist kinks and public play. It’s also great for private photoshoots where you want your cameraman to think of you (and your bulge) for days on end.
3. Thigh Straps
If you have a full-body muscle man suit or a pair of muscle pants at home, you definitely should own a collection of thigh straps!
Depending on where you place them, they instantly draw the eyes to your thighs, legs, and crotch. Now, those are areas you want to spotlight when you want to seduce, right? Their design can be as practical as a holster (for guns) or for cutesy dun (like garter belts).
For Framing Your Thighs Just Right
Thigh straps have the ability to frame your thighs in all the right ways. With these accessories on, it’s a breeze to highlight and define muscles on the lower half of your body. It’ll also make you feel cool, very sexy, and oh-so wanted!
Perfect for Play
Personally, I always wear some type of thigh straps. You can wear them over your pants and connect them to your bed. Add a fake gun for a Police-Criminal roleplay. They can also be in BDSM scenes to hold down a sub and keep his legs open.
Using thigh straps can also be considered light bondage. They’ll be a great introductory accessory if you decide to dive deeper into BDSM. They can also just be there to visually turn you or your loverboy on.
4. Studded Belt
You might already have this in your closet. But a studded belt is a subtle but matching accessory to your muscle man suit. Visual-wise, your belt studs catch the light. This will draw attention to your waistline.
Even if you’re not in your emo era anymore, a studded belt announces to the world that you’re a rebel. You’re defiant, and you’ll surely attract many who are curious how “rebellious” you can be when they get their (loving) hands on you.
For Making a Bold Statement
A studded belt adds a layer of intensity to any outfit. It makes you look more aggressive. It’s a tag that shows you want to be in control.
Perfect for Play
Wanting to be in control doesn’t automatically mean you’re a top. So don’t get it twisted!
Speaking of bottoming, I’ll tell you a secret. Most gay men I know who wear studded belts are power bottoms who know how to make their tops submit.
Studded belts are also perfect for bondage or as a prop in your BDSM scenes.
5. Jockstrap
Another classic! Jockstraps are one of the sexiest men’s lingerie out there. It also comes in various designs, colors, and functionality. Once you get your hands on your first jockstrap, it won’t be long until you realize you’re steadily building a jockstrap collection!
For Highlighting Your Assets
With a muscle man suit, it easily highlights all your assets— balls, junk, ass— the whole shebang! Support and comfort are just bonuses at this point.
Perfect for Play
For gay men, the jockstrap fits seamlessly into various kink and BDSM scenes. It’s perfect for exhibitionist play, sauna orgies, and other roleplays. Often, roleplays with jockstraps involve sports and massages.
Whether you’re at a party or in an intimate setting, this undie accessory will never disappoint.
6. Dog Tag
Dog tags add a touch of military-inspired style to your muscle man suit. These tags complement a tough and rugged look. Like you’re just back from duty and not here to deal with anyone’s mess.
For Personalization and Uniqueness
They offer a personalized element with custom engravings. A dog tag can also be sentimental, making it a great pair with an outfit unique to you.
Perfect for Play
Dog tags fit well with various kinks and BDSM scenes. They add an element of ownership and control. Think of your dom wearing your name on his dog tag and vice versa. There’s a tangible sense of commitment there that elevates the sex.
7. Wrist Cuffs
Wrist cuffs suggest full control or surrendering of control. Depending on their design, they can be sweet and naughty or daring and vulgar. They can also be a symbol of ownership. That’s a whole new discussion when it comes to BDSM and D/S dynamics.
For Boosting Power and Control
Wrist cuffs can also be a symbol of power and control in a professional setting. Imagine wearing cufflinks with your name engraved on them to a business meeting. It’s a subtle way to establish your presence and mark yourself as a confident man.
When talking about material, leather is often the go-to choice for wrist cuffs. But there are also other options. There’s metal, fabric, or even lace.
Regardless of the material, wrist cuffs offer instantly adds allure to any outfit or occasion. They can be dressed up for a formal event or paired with lingerie for a more intimate setting.
Perfect for Play
Of course, one of the main uses for wrist cuffs is in the bedroom. They are a staple accessory in BDSM play. How can they not when they have “excitement” written all over them?
The best thing is that wrist cuffs create a sense of vulnerability and trust. It also allows for more control and experimentation in the bedroom.
But don’t limit yourself to just using them with your partner. Wrist cuffs can also be used on their own for self-exploration and solo play.
8. Nipple Piercings
Not everyone is built to pierce their nipples. You can expect them to be sore for a week. Not to mention the itch and possible bleeding. But with a muscle man suit, you can have nipple piercings anytime!
For Seducing Anyone
Nipple piercings are one of the most obvious come-hither signs in the gay community. You’re not just flirting. You’re inviting your loverboy to do sexual things. So if you’re a straightforward gay man, nipple piercings will do the invitation for you.
Perfect for Play
Nipple piercings strike the balance between pain and pleasure. That balance is what BDSM is all about! Sensation play is another thing you can look forward to when you get your nipples pierced!
