Are you someone who is into Puppy Play, but running out of ways to keep things exciting? You should consider exploring the concept of Puppy Play in dungeons!
To fully explore the world of gay Puppy Play in dungeons, a detailed understanding of Puppy Play is vital. You should know the definition, terms and conventions of it. Along with knowing about the gear, and the more psychological and sociological side of it. Furthermore, an understanding of gay dungeon spaces and appropriate equipment is also important. Even consideration towards decompression and aftercare is vital. Especially given how immersive and intense dungeons can be.
We shall be looking into all of these factors in more detail in this guide. Get your leads, as we walk into the world of gay puppy play in dungeons!
1. Understanding Puppy Play
What Is Puppy Play?
To be able to understand how to approach a gay dungeon that focuses on Puppy Play, you’ll need to know the definition of it! Especially if you’re not too familiar with Puppy Play to begin with.
Puppy Play is a roleplay scenario where one person takes on a “Puppy” persona, and the other a “Handler”.
The Handler will act as the Puppy’s owner, treating the Puppy in a similar way to an actual pet dog. This is also commonly referred to as “Pup Play”.
Typically, the handler will be more of a dominant role, as the puppy will be submissive, and rely on their handler to take the lead. Sometimes literally!
Puppy play happens to be very diverse and varied with the scenarios and roles associated with it. These can vary from having a scenario which is playful and non-sexual. To sexual with intense power dynamics and heavy BDSM influences. So keep this in mind for later planning!
Benefits Of Puppy Play
Now you’ve got a basic idea of what Puppy Play is, what are the benefits of Puppy Play? Why should you consider incorporating Puppy Play into a gay dungeon setting?
Puppy Play allows for emotional expression, intimacy, and escape from daily life pressures. Many find Puppy Play is a great way to unwind and process things that may be troubling them. Or a way to simply avoid thinking about their problems for a while.
It also enables exploration of themes such as submission, obedience and identity. All within a safe, intimate setting. Puppy Play is easy to understand, with clear roles. If you’re looking to experiment with these themes, Puppy Play is a great way to do so.
Connection To LGBTQIA+ Community
Puppy Play is heavily associated with the LGBTQIA+ community. No matter what gender or sexuality someone may have, there is always a group into puppy play.
That is because most spaces focused on Puppy Play are safe, inclusive spaces. Allowing for self expression without judgement.
Adopting a different persona during Puppy Play speaks to a lot of people. Especially those who may be trying to figure out how they wish to express themselves.
Puppy Play can easily fit in with other kinks seen in LGBTQIA+ spaces. BDSM, leather, rubber and ABDL being but a few examples.
You may find that you already have an affinity towards Puppy Play if you already have any BDSM or furry related gear!
Understanding The Role Of A “Pup”
So now we’ve got a basic understanding of what Puppy Play is about, what does being a “Pup” involve?
As previously discussed, the Puppy will usually take on a dog-like persona. But, there’s more to being a Puppy than stereotypical dog-like behaviour.
For example, what temperament of dog will be taken on? Playful? Submissive? Maybe more primal and more of a disobedient challenge for their owner?
It’s important for those involved to establish and define their own unique version of it. It’s a very versatile kink, so it’s easy enough to make each Puppy Play experience differ. It all depends on each participant’s preferences!
This allows you to think about the significance of certain choices in regards to Puppy roles. Consider which dungeon’s theming suits your style of Puppy Play the most when choosing a venue.
It’s common that most Pups are expected to be submissive. They’re often forbidden to speak, only communicating in barks.
This is obviously not something that might appeal to every single sub. Therefore, it’s important that a Pup establishes their boundaries and expectations. This should be through clear communication with their handler. Especially before commencing any form of Puppy Play.
Just remember. If you don’t want to do every single thing your Handler wants you to do, that doesn’t mean you’re doing a bad job at being a Pup! The important thing is you’re experiencing Puppy Play in a way that makes you comfortable!
Exploring The Gear
Now you’ve got a better understanding of what a Pup is and their role in Puppy Play, it’s time to explore some of the gear. You may find that you already own some of these!
Don’t fret if you can’t afford to get all of these at once, especially for multiple participants! It’s important to start simple and gradually invest in more gear. Only get more once you get a better feel for how much you enjoy Puppy Play.
Pup Hoods
A mask with dog-like features. These are almost essential if you’re going for an authentic Puppy Play experience. They will typically come in full or partial variants. Usually with a range of colours to allow for unique pup looks to suit everyone’s tastes.
They will usually be made of neoprene, leather, or silicone. So keep that in mind when it comes to storing them! Don’t feel afraid to branch out and go for something a bit more realistic. Smitizen has plenty of dog themed masks available!
Tail Plugs
A tail that enhances the Puppy role, along with providing some extra pleasure for the Pup. This is an easy way to emphasise more of the doggy traits of a Pup, allowing them to have more to work with. Is the Puppy happy? Then the Puppy can wag their tail!
The only downside is that Pups will have to remove these before getting into anything related to anal play. This might ruin their immersion and the flow of their session. But given the plug aspects, they’ll still be getting some “stimulation” if they keep it on!
Paw Mitts
These are gloves that restrict finger use for a more authentic experience. Given their name, these are typically designed to resemble paws. They’re great for those into bondage, or for those who love the themes of control that Puppy Play presents.
Paw mitts can be great for forcing the Pup to further rely on their Handler. Along with making it harder for them to remove any other gear they may be wearing. They’re forced to remain a puppy until their Handler decides they get to stop!
You can always match your paw mitts with some foot paws for a more authentic look!
Collars and Leashes
When you think of the terms “pet” and “Puppy”, it’s hard not to associate these words with collars and leashes. The difference between a wild dog and a pet dog is usually if they have a collar or not, after all!
These are symbols of submission and obedience, connecting the Handler to the Pup. These are an easy way to show who a Pup is owned by. This is especially helpful for a gay dungeon setting with multiple participants. Name tags also help a Pup distance themselves from their human identities.
Though, that doesn’t mean Handlers can’t share with, or even give away their Pup to another Handler! As long as the new Handler has the leash, the Puppy must follow. There’s plenty of interesting scenarios this can lead to if you’ve provided the right resources!
Leashes also work well with harnesses, if you want another way to use them!
Safety And Consent
Like any kink that has a focus on control and dominance, safety and consent are vital. No matter how much you’re enjoying things, if your partner wants to stop, you stop.
We’ve briefly mentioned communicating boundaries with Handlers earlier. But it’s crucial to establish just how important this is. Handlers should make sure they also communicate to their Puppy their boundaries too! You may find some Pups are a bit too eager to act exactly like a dog!
During pre-session discussion, you should also be setting safe words. These should be clear, and distinct from anything you might accidentally say.
Most of the time it’ll be noticeable that something is wrong if a Puppy starts to talk instead of bark. But it’s important you set these anyway so you both know when to stop. Not all sessions involve the Handler being the dominant one, after all!
You should also follow hygiene and safety practices. Especially with shared gear. If you know a piece of gear has been used by a stranger, then it’s best practice to find one that hasn’t been used.
Unsure about how to operate a piece of gear safely? Then don’t use it until you’ve had one of the dungeon staff tell you how. Likewise, if you think something is faulty, don’t use it.
2. Puppy Play In Dungeons: What To Expect
Step 1: Arrival And Setting Expectations
When you first arrive at a gay dungeon, you should check if it will be suitable for your needs. You should have done some research into the venue beforehand. But if it’s one you’ve come across on short notice, make sure you’re asking questions!
Communication is important, as it allows you to establish consent properly. Ensure that you have discussed any questions or concerns you may have with your partner or dungeon staff.
This will allow you to make an informed decision about whether or not you will feel comfortable in that dungeon. It will also mean you’re aware of any safety measures in place that may not be immediately obvious.
This is also a great time for Handlers and Pups to discuss their limits and desires. Even if you’ve found out the venue allows for some rougher, physically demanding Puppy Play doesn’t mean you have to do it!
Step 2: Setting The Atmosphere
A good dungeon will make good use of the following elements. Intimate lighting, sound or music, and sufficient space for BDSM and Puppy Play.
The use of these elements may vary depending on the dungeon’s overall theming. So don’t assume all gay dungeon spaces are the same!
Some of the dungeon-specific gear catering towards Puppy Play are as follows.
Bondage Furniture
Slings, cages, fuck benches, and bondage tables. All designed for a lot of rough, physical and sexual play.
Cages and Kennels
For confinement or role-playing as a pup. These are great for helping a Pup really get into a doggy mindset!
Restraints and Collars
Essential for control and submission. These are also heavily associated with dogs, so they’re great for roleplay purposes too.
Play Mats and Protective Flooring
For comfortable Puppy Play and crawling. These will make it a lot easier for Pups to stay in character.
Step 3: Socialising And Observing
You should ensure you establish what the dungeon etiquette is, preferably before you engage in a gay dungeon space.
Dungeon etiquette is mostly about respecting boundaries. If a couple want to be left alone, ensure you know the unspoken signs which tell you that they wish to be left alone.
Likewise, it’s important to know the etiquette in regards to using gear. Do you need to ask dungeon staff permission before using gear? Or just other patrons?
If you’re uncertain about the etiquette or dynamics, it doesn’t hurt to observe the others around you. You can always ask a member of dungeon staff if you don’t want to ruin anyone’s immersion!
As for interacting with other patrons, this can vary. Some dungeons encourage active participation with anyone with little regard to consent. Make sure you know what you’re getting into!
Eye-contact will usually mean that a patron is interested in engaging with you. They may also provide some other non-verbal cues, especially if they’re a Pup. For example, carrying a leash in their mouth and dropping it at your feet.
Unless stated otherwise, Handlers and Pups will stick to their established roles. Do not attempt to force someone to do something outside of their role! Only do this if you’ve both discussed things beforehand!
Step 4: Play And Exploration
You will be encouraged to use as much of the available space as possible. All that gear and equipment is there for a reason! Feel free to get acquainted with the space and gear available to you!
That extends to including other patrons of the dungeon in your session, if the etiquette encourages it. It’s a social setting for a reason!
3. Decompression And Aftercare
Gay dungeons can be intense, even for those who are already experienced with Puppy Play. Therefore, it’s important that you understand the importance of decompression and aftercare.
This will typically be done in “safe zones”. Areas that are separate from the dungeon space, such as changing rooms or the dungeon entrance. You will be able to decompress better if you’re not forced immediately out into a public space, after all!
If you’re uncertain about what these terms mean, we’ll go over their definitions for you. Starting with decompression. This is essentially what happens as soon as you leave a gay dungeon.
This involves the process of coming back to reality. It’s important that the Handler and the Pup discuss their experience, and start to remove their gear. This helps them to re-adjust to their mindset outside of Puppy Play. Especially if they’ve had a particularly intense session.
This then leads onto aftercare. Aftercare is more so a process that needs to be initiated by the Handler/Dom of the session. Though Pups/Subs should help their partner with their own aftercare too!
Aftercare is a process that will vary in length, depending on how intense your session was. It focuses more so on the discussion of feelings and thoughts of the participants. Basically, it’s a way for Handlers to check if their Pups are okay.
Aftercare is vital if you’ve focused on humiliation, or intense physical activity. It allows Doms to reassure their Subs that they care about them. This helps establish a healthy distance between kink based fantasies and reality.
Acts of kindness also help contribute towards effective aftercare. This can be as simple as getting someone a drink. Be prepared to be open, kind and empathetic if you’re not much of a people person!
You can always reach out to dungeon staff if you’re feeling a little shaken. Having a third party speak to you can often help calm your mind and help remind you that your session was just fantasy. Your handler doesn’t have any ill feelings about you!
4. Expanding Your Exploration
Hopefully by this point you’ve given Puppy Play in a gay dungeon space a try! But what should you do if you’ve enjoyed yourself and want to try exploring more gay dungeon experiences?
Joining The Community
One route you could take is joining a larger community of Puppy Play enthusiasts! Luckily for you, this will be as easy as making friends with some of the patrons of the dungeon you’ve attended.
This is a great way to find out about more Puppy Play related events. Or to gather information about what other Puppy Play enthusiasts recommend you try doing to enhance your sessions.
There’s also several online communities for Pup Play. You will be able to find groups for your local city, state, or country.
This is a great way to find out where other gay dungeons focused on Puppy Play are located. Giving you more options If you want to try a different venue, or research how other dungeons are run to make suggestions for your local one.
These connections will then help you to attend events, meetups and play parties. Allowing for exploration of the different ways gay dungeons and Puppy Play interact. You may find yourself preferring a certain dungeon type over another!
Exploring Intersecting Kinks And Fetishes
Another route you can take is exploring other kinks and fetishes.Especially those that have some similarities or crossover with Puppy Play. BDSM, ABDL, leather and rubber for example.
This broadens the possibilities you have when it comes to gay dungeon experiences. It also means that you can figure out what aspects of these kinks appeal to you the most. You may find that Puppy Play may act as a gateway to wider kink exploration.
You can use this to adjust your experience to your tastes and maximise your pleasure. Or find a way to indulge in multiple kinks at the same time, if possible!
Continued Self-Discovery
If you discover that Puppy Play isn’t for you, or you prefer to indulge in it in private, don’t feel you wasted your time. What matters most is that you tried it!
Puppy Play, and kink culture as a whole is all about self-discovery. It’s something personal to every individual’s tastes. Not everything is going to be appealing, even if you thought it would be at first.
Kinks are supposed to be a way for you to process the world around you, and represent your innermost desires. You should always be embracing the journey they provide of learning about yourself. Find what you enjoy, and express your authentic identity in a way that’s personal to you.
No one gets to tell you how to feel. Don’t force yourself to do things if you’re not enjoying them! Kinks are supposed to be pleasurable, after all!
Conclusion
We hope you’ve gained a better understanding of exploring the world of gay Puppy Play in dungeons! Whether you’re new to the scene, or looking to enhance your Puppy Play experience. Let your imagination run wild!
Have you tried Puppy Play in a gay dungeon before? Why not leave a comment to let us know about your experiences!
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