When my good friend (and long-time FWB) hit me up on a lazy Tuesday with the idea of a gay threesome, I was all in. First, I already trust this FWB friend, and second, the guy we’re doing it with has these delicious muscular thighs— so how can I say no? There are many things I thought of us doing, especially since I’m not sure if this is a one-time chance I can’t waste. It’ll be a shame if I keep all these ideas I’ve researched all to myself, so I’m listing them here for you!
Gay Threesomes and Logistics
Before I show you my list, there’s an important element of menage-a-trois I need to highlight: logistics, aka The Threesomes Program.
You can’t just jump into a gay threesome without a game plan— that’s how you end up with someone awkwardly standing around, waiting for their turn like it’s a bloody queue at the DMV. Nah, you gotta keep everyone engaged.
So have a pow-wow with your partners before any clothes come off.
- Who’s doing what and to whom?
- Who’s going to fuck who first?
- Which dom will eat the sub out first?
- Who gets to experience the sub’s world-class fellatio first?
- Are you gonna use condoms or go raw?
- If you’re wrapping it up, who’s putting the condoms on?
- Double penetration— yay or nay? If that’s on the table, figure out positions. Who’s taking which end?
Don’t leave it up to chance— you don’t want to kill the vibe by fumbling with every little thing!
Having all this sorted out will keep the action rolling and ensure no one’s just there twiddling their thumbs—unless, of course, someone’s into watching. In that case, let them revel in the show.
6 Best Gay Threesome Ideas for a Night You Won’t Forget
Now that you know the game plan, let me feed you with those sexy ideas I’ve teased you about!
1. Put your best foot forward
You know I’m not talking about feet, right? I’m talking about your expertise, skills, and mastery— Individually and as a group.
You gotta show off what you’re the best at, especially if it’s the first time for the three of you to get entangled. Like, if you’re a pro at giving BJs and your gag reflex is non-existent, you better let your partners know.
It’ll be a shame if you keep that to yourself! Imagine being the oral superstar all night long— that mouth of yours will surely be put to good, consistent use.
Do you dig what I’m saying? It’s all about making sure everyone in the trio knows what you bring to the table and what they can give you in return!
Reminder: Take this time to also talk about any limits you or your partners are not willing to cross!
2. Play a character
Roleplays can seriously amp up the intrigue in a threesome. Think about the thrill— it’s like starring in your own naughty movie!
Since I’m a sub baby, I always dream of playing the role of an innocent rich boy who’s been taken captive by two masked, smokin’ hot bodybuilders. Instead of being scared, of course, I’m horny!
I make it my mission to seduce them to give me all the comfort I need (and want) while waiting for my rich Daddy dearest to pay up the ransom.
The scenes will depend on you three! How about one where your explorers are on a treasure hunt, but the real treasure is each other’s bodies? Or maybe a naughty professor and two very eager students?
When you roleplay, don’t skimp on the props. Props make the illusion immersive and help everyone stay in character.
3. Film it for later
Filming means you get to relive all those spicy moments whenever you want. Plus, having that footage for round two (or three or four) is like having your own personal, X-rated highlight reel. Throw that on while you’re having another session and the intensity skyrockets.
But wait, there’s more! Keeping the film as a memento can be a total confidence booster, too— you get to see yourself in action and maybe even pick up on things you wanna try again or even improve.
Sharing it with your partners can bring you all even closer, making the next encounters even better. And that’s on the physical and psychological level!
So yeah, hit that record button and make those memories last! Just remember to keep it safe and consensual, obviously. Thank me later!
4. Take the reins off
If you really wanna crank up the heat in your threesome, you gotta learn to let go a bit… or a lot. Think about it: if you’re a sub, let your doms go wild. Don’t hold back or overthink it. Just let them do their thing. Trust them to read your cues and sensations.
When you surrender your autonomy and let others be in control, you can focus on the pleasure. Plus, hey, the less you stress about trivial things, the more you can enjoy what you’re in the middle of.
If you’re the dom with two subs, sit back and let them spoil you. Bottoms live for this! Let your subs take the reins and watch how they make it all about you or how they “use” you to their hearts’ content.
5. Do it in a room full of mirrors
A personal favorite of mine is watching everything—literally. When I look back at what we did, it’s also easier to remember. There’s nothing like seeing yourself and your partners go at it from every angle.
You get to catch every steamy moment and every hot position. It’s the ultimate front-row seat to your wildest show ever. What’s more— you’re the star!
The mirrors just add a crazy layer of intensity. All that visual feedback heightens everything. You see expressions, movements, and reactions that you normally wouldn’t catch.
The more angles you can see, the more mind-blowing it gets.
And all that mess? It’s freaking intoxicating. The sweat, the bodies glistening, the raw passion— all of it multiplied by the reflections. It’s a chaotic, sensual overload that just makes you wanna dive deeper into the whole experience. It’s raw, it’s real, and it’s hot AF.
6. Celebrate threesomes like the Romans
Have you ever heard of Bacchanalia? It’s definitely the OG rager! It’s the ultimate ancient Roman party where everyone went wild.
Just like how the Romans celebrate their god of ecstasy and freedom, you’d want to turn your threesome into a full-blown fest. Get some wine, be drunk, dance around!
This makes the steamy action, say, steamier! Without any inhibitions, you three are more likely to find each other’s pleasure spots.
Turn your threesome into a legendary Roman-style bash— I’m sure it’s something you’re likely to never forget!
More Gay Threesome Ideas to Add
If my top 6 ideas aren’t enough, don’t worry. I got more in my notes! These spicy suggestions guarantee a hot, unforgettable gay threesome encounter.
1. Do it in front of a live audience
Ever thought about getting down and dirty with an audience? Who needs reality shows when you can literally put on a show?
The thrill of knowing others is watching just cranks up the intensity. Whether it’s a small crowd or live-streaming to a select group, the added eyes make everything so much hotter.
2. Blindfold one participant
Take it up a notch by blindfolding one of y’all. Blindfolds = pure sensory overload! The anticipation, the guessing, it’s all freaking intense.
One person is blindfolded and completely vulnerable, while another takes charge and gives orders. It’s like a sexy game of Simon Says, but tons better.
3. Use restraints
Strap in because restraints are where things get wild. Harnesses, cuffs, gags— get creative with it. Restraining one or all of you ramps up the excitement, adding a delicious layer of tension and control.
There’s something crazy sexy about being tied up and at someone else’s mercy. There’s a reason BDSM is evergreen, eh?
4. Add surprises
Wanna keep things unpredictable? Toss in some surprises! I’m talking about those pre-discussed “okay” activities that weren’t part of the original plan. Maybe suddenly bringing out a cock ring or a bottle of whipped cream. These little twists keep everyone on their toes and make the whole experience even more thrilling.
5. Make it a competition
Who doesn’t love a bit of playful rivalry? Turn your threesome into a competition— who can make the sub cum the fastest? Who can hold out his orgasm the longest? It turns the heat way up, bringing out everybody’s A-game.
The winner gets bragging rights (and maybe some extra love later).
