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What is a Pleasure Dom?

A pleasure Dom is a dominant partner who prioritises pleasure and also prioritises satisfying the needs of their submissive spouse.

They prioritise their sub’s physical and mental well-being and strive to provide a safe and consenting atmosphere for sexual pleasure and play.

The most often used kink and BDSM words are “Dom” and “sub.” “Dom” means “Dominant,” i.e., the partner who takes the lead in the game; “sub” stands for “submissive,” the partner who follows the Dom.

In consensual kink scenes, including BDSM, the Dom/sub interaction is fundamental.

 

 

It is typical to believe that the concept of dominance in sex only relates to harming a sexual partner, but this is not the case.

That could be true in hardcore scenes involving characters like the rigger, who enjoys rope bondage, the master, who enjoys harder core dominance with lots of rules and punishments, and the sadist, who gets off on inflicting pain through impact play.

A pleasure Dom, on the other hand, is a lover who is always on the lookout for new sexual acts to try.

 

A Pleasure Dom, short for “Pleasure Dominant,” is a phrase used to describe a dominant sexual style in which the main goal is to give pleasure to a partner.

It combines aspects of submission and domination, with a focus on consensual experiences.

Origin of Pleasure Dominance Terminology

 

 

Nobody can truly say for sure when the term was originally used, as is the case with many things we have accepted as standard.

Pleasure-seeking in the sex industry, as much as in intimate relationships, has progressed beyond exaggerated acting and fake satisfaction.

Many people today seek out more intimate and rewarding experiences. This desire led to the creation of the ideal sex god.

The ideal sex partner was created as a result of online sex community debates.

The term “pleasure Dom” was made to describe a sexual relationship centred purely on the dynamics of a dominant pleasing and a sub he or she adores.

Pleasure Dom Responsibility

A pleasure Dom’s position is far more than merely creating the tone for sex. He or she needs to guarantee that a sub feels safe and can be vulnerable enough to go above and beyond for the Dom.

A significant role must be played. It is the pleasure dom’s duty and responsibility to:

 

 

• Define boundaries and obtain their submissive partner’s approval.
• Adequately communicate to understand their partner’s wishes, limits, and desires.
• Provide a secure environment for their sub to voice their wants without worrying about being judged.
• Actively listen to their spouse, taking note of both expressed and unspoken cues to ensure their comfort and happiness.
• Create experiences that are uniquely tailored to their spouse, bearing in mind that everyone has different wants and tastes.
• Take command of the scenario and guide their sub through a variety of enjoyable encounters.
• Offer aftercare and emotional support to their submissive partner. The reassurance should not be ignored.
• As a Dom it is your responsibility to know your partner inside; of course(*wink*) and out.

Pleasure Dom qualities

Let’s go right ahead and highlight certain qualities that should be tailor expected of a pleasure dom:

 

 

1. A pleasure Dom should be emphatic and emotionally savvy enough to recognize and address their partner’s needs.
2. A pleasure Dom should be an effective communicator. Say it exactly as they want it.
3. Have a strong understanding of good BDSM practices and safe techniques.
4. A pleasure Dom should be creative and flexible enough to not go beyond their partners’ pleasure boundaries and still please.
5. A pleasure dom should be patient and gentle enough to switch between dominance and caring.

Why be a pleasure Dom?

Being sexually vulnerable and loving it can be the most enticing feeling in the world. As a sub in the safe hands of a pleasure Dom, everything will appear to be in order.

It expresses trust and acceptance. For every Dom looking for any type of pleasure. Having a partner solely bend to their will please them to the fullest.

It will form a unique bond in ways that were not anticipated. One that will keep a Dom and his sub connected for a lifetime.

The kind of desire that leaves you shaking long before the real action begins.

Being a Dom has its rewards. Believe it or not, they go through the process of learning their pleasure stops with these gorgeous and passionate sex scenes as Dom.

And, in the BDSM world, identifying as a pleasure Dom typically results in a bigger number of eager partners ready to carry out your every command. It’s not all sweet and easy though.

 

 

As a Dom you’ll have to learn:

• Balancing power dynamics while retaining consent.
• Navigate your submissive partner’s emotional needs and triggers.
• Always learn and evolve to match your partner’s shifting wants and wishes.
• Dealing with the societal stigma and misconceptions about BDSM.

Pleasure Dominance VS Traditional BDSM  

As earlier stated, a lot of misconceptions still linger around the idea of who a pleasure Dom is.

Between the traditional BDSM practices and pleasure dominance, similar traits exist but the differences can be easily identified.

 

 

• Sadists vs. Pleasure Doms: While sadists like inflicting pain on their partners for sexual stimulation, pleasure dominants focus largely on offering enjoyable sensory experiences without creating suffering. It involves no aggression even when things get sexually intense.
• Masters/Mistresses vs. Sensual Doms: Masters and Mistresses often assert authority through discipline and punishment, but pleasure doms prioritize their sub’s satisfaction over these forms of control.
• Dominant/Submissive vs. Giver/Receiver: Traditional dominant/submissive roles need one person to exercise control over another; however, giver/receiver dynamics place a greater focus on mutual delight rather than hierarchy or submission.

 

 

Pleasure dominants go against traditional ideas of domination by prioritising their submissive desires above all else.

Some may claim that pleasure dominants are not “true” dominants because their primary function is to deliver sensual pleasure rather than exert control through discipline or punishment.

Others regard them as real participants in the world of BDSM.

Sex Habits of a Pleasure Dom

When we talk about sex habits, we are easily referring to activities that pleasure Doms most likely indulge in.

These habits can vary from person to person but some of the common sex habits across most pleasure Doms are;

 

 

• Dirty talk- Talking dirty is one of the mainstays of dominance and it pushes the boundaries a little past regular sexual encounter.
• Roleplay
• Wearing outfits such as leather or whatever else makes them feel dominant
• Bondage

Typical Pleasure Dom Activities

You’ll observe that the actions of a pleasure Dom are very similar to what your normal dom does daily.

While the tasks appear to be similar, the distinctions lay in how they are carried out; the technique varies. A pleasure dom is constantly driven by love, affection, or a desire to please.

 

 

1. Sensory play

This could include sensory play, role-playing scenes, and other activities tailored to the submissive partner’s personal preferences.

It can include blindfolding, feather tickling, ice and wax play, sensuous massages, sound manipulation, and touch.

Imagine this scene…. a pleasure Dom standing over a sensation play table, his Sub bent over, wanting to be pleased and teased.

Instead of going into her raw, he reaches for her toys and teases her just as she likes them.

For some, the lingering mystery of a blindfold is enough; for others, it’s the teasing effect of specific sounds.

2. Light spanking

 

 

Light impact activity can provide delight without being harmful. A light ass spank, a light boob spank, a playful face grip, you name it.

Begin with gentle taps or light smacks, gradually increasing the intensity as desired.

Take cues from your partner’s emotions and check in regularly to see if they are enjoying and agreeing to the experience.

Use either your hand, a soft flogger, or a paddle. These are less painful than whips and canes. Many confirm that mixing light spanking with sensory play makes up for the ultimate pleasure.

3. Teasing

Teasing can be quite mentally stimulating. Slowly increase your partner’s excitement level until they are close to orgasm, then back off. Strip tease, fuck tease, or danger tease.

Tease till they anticipate the next step. Repeat this method several times until they squirm. Finally, let them orgasm.

You’ll notice that their orgasm is more powerful than if you let them cum right away.

 

 

4. Sex Toys

Sex toys are a means to a good end. Butt plugs, vibrators, nipple clips, and more.

Doms understand how to use sex gadgets to their best potential.

Begin small and gradually expand your list of toys, experimenting with different types.

 

 

5. Tantra

When used in a sexual setting, it refers to developing a deep connection with your partner through techniques such as breathing, touch, and eye gazing.

This connection causes greater sensitivity and a more enjoyable time for both lovers.

 

 

How to Find a Pleasure, Dom

 

Finding a Pleasure Dom is simpler than finding a traditional Dom, in our opinion, since they are just people who love to give pleasure!

There are two ways that you can find a pleasure Dom. First, locate a regular Dom and see whether they enjoy giving pleasure rather than receiving.

Secondly, find a vanilla person and encourage them to try out their dominance on you.

 

 

Conclusion

BDSM does not refer to a specific set of behaviors. It’s a vast category, and it’s fine to choose just what you enjoy from it.

If you prefer to be spanked and play with toys without getting bruised or any form of aggression, that is still considered a BDSM kink.

 

 

If your kink involves giving yourself over to someone who will provide you with sensation play, tonnes of clit stimulation, and more orgasms than you can take, fucking a pleasure dom is just what you need.